I just finished the four-day training to become an infant massage instructor. The class was marvelous - a great group of interesting women. I was somewhat surprised to be one of only two LMTs in the group, but encouraged that so many people in other disciplines are helping spread the acceptance of positive touch. One of the most important parts of the massage we teach - if not THE most important part - is Asking Permission. The baby's parent rubs oil between their palms so the baby can hear it, then shows their open hands and asks, "would you like a massage?" If the baby communicates a Yes then they proceed. I remember in massage school watching a demonstration of this and feeling shocked - it made a strong impression on me. While I would never force a massage on a baby (or anyone, for that matter), it simply hadn't occurred to me that permission should be asked. Now that I've learned more about infant massage, Asking Permission makes so much sense. One goal of infant massage is enhancing communication between baby and parent - helping parents respond to the baby's behavioral cues rather than simply react. Asking Permission is an excellent starting point. Also, as children get older they are taught about "good touch" vs. "bad touch" - massage with respect is "good touch", and that will help a child understand "bad touch" as they get older. More and more studies are showing that the "leave them alone to cry it out" approach is a great way to end up with anxious and depressed adults. Infant massage helps support parents' nurturing instincts, and the end result is happier, less tearful babies. It's a win/win situation... who doesn't love that? One more thought: there are some interesting studies out there recommending Infant Massage classes to mothers with postpartum depression (e.g. "Postnatal depression and mother and infant outcomes after infant massage" O'Higgins 2008). Turns out all those good bonding hormones like oxytocin are kickstarted through the massage process. If you know a new mom having a hard time, whether it be "baby blues" or something darker, it might be good to help her find an infant massage instructor. (Like me! I'll be fully certified by spring 2011.) But you don't have to wait for me - see www.infantmassageusa.org for instructors in your area. p.s. I'm still looking for migraine sufferers for a self-care workshop! e me at info[at]somervillemassage.com if you're interested. |
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